to Take the bull by the horns.

I won't tell you that I'm sorry 
'cause every body knows you're hurting me.
No. Life is not a bed of roses.
Neither for you nor for me.
But open your eyes and you will see :
I'm not as sad as you claim to be.

If you let yourself fall again,
I'll leave you in pain...

...*sigh*...I'm so confused now...

"No one is in control of your happiness but you; 
therefore, you have the power to change anything 
about yourself or your life that you want to change."